Watching My Path Light up…

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So, it’s been EXACTLY 7mos.from the day that I began my cross-country trip (Philly to San Diego) in my Jeep Wrangler. Because I was open to adventure, a lovely, seven-day journey became one of the top events of my life. I am so grateful that I was open to whatever the Universe would bring me. (My adventure is described in previous daily posts)

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So seven months later, I have settled back on Maui. I live back in the same exact town where I departed from just blocks away from my previous apartment. Today, my boy & I live with a dear friend who lives just 4 blocks from my BFF. We live 1 block from the ocean and the surfing/paddling spot where I met my son’s father. Life is a BIG circle, lol!  When I left Maui for Philadelphia, I was a personal trainer, radio DJ, and primary school gym teacher. Today, I am a personal trainer& fitness instructor (the same awesome gym!), a morning show radio personality (on a different station), and a weekly emcee at a dinner lounge/night spot. I recall when I lived in Philly (and regretted leaving Maui everyday) that I thought, “Who in their right mind leaves a beautiful, exotic island home and 3 jobs that they love?  I’ll never be able to re-create that!! What an idiot I must be!!”…. Today, as I stared at the ocean, I realize that I got back everything I loved; my boy is happy; and everything is actually BETTER than when I left. How is that even possible??!!??…

NOTHING is a random occurrence! Recognize when the Universe is lighting up your path! How do you know? The events occur effortlessly & seamlessly. You feel good butterflies about opportunities opening up. Many times these fortunate events are unplanned and just fall into your lap. i.e., my friend lost her housemates just a month before I moved back to Maui; the gym owners wanted me back; I couldn’t get my job back at the original radio station – they had filled my vacancy. I never liked the music format there to begin with & longed for a morning show of my own on a super cool dance-music station. Weeks later, I’m driving my Jeep, listening to a jammin’ new station that I’d never heard before. I called the station to get the email address of the program mgr. Today, I’m the Morning Girl at the brand new station on the island. I am the only on-air personality at this station. The manager at the lounge/night-spot heard me on the air a few weeks ago and contacted the station to do some advertising. Today, I emcee their new, weekly ladies’ night event. Like I said, nothing is random. Even the seemingly negative event (my previous on-air job being filled) can be the bridge to your intended path. Your intended path is ALWAYS the path of least resistance. Your only work when these things happen is to control your mood! Follow what feels good. Stop second guessing & doubting the events. Appreciate the timing. Appreciate each step you take in your life journey. Remember, there are no wrong decisions because eventually you’ll wind up on the path intended for you but going with your gut & following your bliss will get you to the lighted path faster….

 

My guidebook “Enjoy Online Dating Using the Law of Attraction” is available in eBook exclusively on Amazon/Kindle($6.99):

http://www.amazon.com/Enjoy-Online-Dating-Using-Attraction-ebook/dp/B00HPGGH7C/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1412859613&sr=1-1&keywords=Enjoy+Online+Dating+Using

or hardcopy at Lulu.com($8.99):

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You Ask But Are You Ready?

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I rarely re-post from another blog-site but this article is phenomenal. The author may not be formally aware of the Law of Attraction but this view point is in complete alignment with LoA. Enjoy reading about your own readiness for a relationship in the Vortex…

http://markgroves.tv/why-you-might-not-be-ready-for-the-evolved-man-you-say-you-want/

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My guidebook “Enjoy Online Dating Using the Law of Attraction” is available in eBook exclusively on Amazon/Kindle($6.99):

http://www.amazon.com/Enjoy-Online-Dating-Using-Attraction-ebook/dp/B00HPGGH7C/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1412859613&sr=1-1&keywords=Enjoy+Online+Dating+Using

or hardcopy at Lulu.com($8.99):

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Stop Pointing at Others

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I have a New Years resolution to look at my own choices & behavior before pointing the finger at others. Pointing at the behavior of others does little to help you grow as a person, especially as a person in relationship. There are 2 important reasons to stop pointing at others to blame.

1) In the Law of Attraction – you draw all persons and circumstances who/that are a match to your emotions. ALWAYS

2)  You have little or NO influence on the journey of another person so why spend any time worrying, debating, discussing or analyzing their choices & behavior?

 

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When looking at a string of negative dating experiences, examine where you are emotionally. You have drawn these circumstances to yourself with maybe some doubt, some negative thinking, some depressed emotions… It may be time to take a break to get to a happier place. Or if your relationship has hit a rocky place, examine the vibration you’ve been putting out there in the past few weeks & months. Are you unhappy, tired, doubtful, cynical? Well, it’s no wonder that circumstances changed to match your own emotional vibe. Always examine self when questioning your circumstances.

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My guidebook “Enjoy Online Dating Using the Law of Attraction” is available in eBook exclusively on Amazon/Kindle($6.99):

http://www.amazon.com/Enjoy-Online-Dating-Using-Attraction-ebook/dp/B00HPGGH7C/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1412859613&sr=1-1&keywords=Enjoy+Online+Dating+Using

or hardcopy at Lulu.com($8.99):

http://www.lulu.com/shop/chris-dee/enjoy-online-dating-using-the-law-of-attraction/paperback/product-21839697.html

Reflections

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As the new year is upon us, looking back and looking forward is common. “Take time to reflect” is a slogan you here a lot these days.

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In my mind, taking a look back is only fruitful if you are looking back in appreciation. If looking back at this past year has you focusing on negative events of 2014, then cut it out. Find reasons to be appreciative of 2014 and then the Universe will send you more of THAT for 2015. Looking forward & looking back only serves you if you are in alignment (happiness & appreciation of ALL events). Peace comes to you when you realize that everything that happened in 2014 is EXACTLY as the Universe/Source had planned. Happy 2015!!

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My guidebook “Enjoy Online Dating Using the Law of Attraction” is available in eBook exclusively on Amazon/Kindle($6.99):

http://www.amazon.com/Enjoy-Online-Dating-Using-Attraction-ebook/dp/B00HPGGH7C/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1412859613&sr=1-1&keywords=Enjoy+Online+Dating+Using

or hardcopy at Lulu.com($8.99):

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Recognize When Your Path Lights Up

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Sitting at a place where you aren’t sure of your path? Changes are starting to happen and you aren’t sure of the direction you should take?

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For example, you are walking down the street and you unexpectedly run into an ex that you were crazy about over a decade ago. You are both single. Why did that happen? You are restarting a connection but where do you take it? Or another example, your career is at a standstill when suddenly a potentially negative labor-force cut occurs at work. You are affected. In a strange impulse you call an old employer and with some serendipitous timing, your former position is open & they loved you when you were there.

These aren’t just random occurrences! Recognize when the Universe is lighting up your path! How do you know? The events occur effortlessly & seamlessly. You feel good butterflies about opportunities opening up. Many times these fortunate events are unplanned and just fall into your lap. Even the seemingly negative event (getting laid off) can be the bridge to your intended path. Your intended path is ALWAYS the path of least resistance. Your only work when these things happen is to control your mood! Follow what feels good. Stop second guessing & doubting the events. Appreciate the timing. Appreciate each step you take in your life journey. Remember, there are no wrong decisions because eventually you’ll wind up on the path intended for you but going with your gut & following your bliss will get you to the lighted path faster….

 

My guidebook “Enjoy Online Dating Using the Law of Attraction” is available in eBook exclusively on Amazon/Kindle($6.99):

http://www.amazon.com/Enjoy-Online-Dating-Using-Attraction-ebook/dp/B00HPGGH7C/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1412859613&sr=1-1&keywords=Enjoy+Online+Dating+Using

or hardcopy at Lulu.com($8.99):

http://www.lulu.com/shop/chris-dee/enjoy-online-dating-using-the-law-of-attraction/paperback/product-21839697.html

Great-ful

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Recognizing that great health, great son, great friends, great career, great times (past & future), great 1st year blogging anniversary (yay!), great Jeep, a great football team having a great season & a great cup of coffee (lol!) are more than enough to be great-ful for! Enjoy the Holidays, Everyone!

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My guidebook “Enjoy Online Dating Using the Law of Attraction” is available in eBook exclusively on Amazon/Kindle($6.99):

http://www.amazon.com/Enjoy-Online-Dating-Using-Attraction-ebook/dp/B00HPGGH7C/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1412859613&sr=1-1&keywords=Enjoy+Online+Dating+Using

or hardcopy at Lulu.com($8.99):

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Like Yourself 1st

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As I sit down with folks to discuss the online dating process, my 1st question is “Do you know who you are & do you like yourself?”  If there is any hesitation in their response or if their response is decidedly negative, I firmly state that they are NOT ready for the Online Dating process.

There are 3 reasons for this:

1) According Law of Attraction, you will attract a person in a similar emotional state & in a similar stage of their journey in life. Do you know anyone that searches for a mate who doesn’t like themselves?

2) Online Dating can be a fun process or a hurtful, frustrating process. I will guarantee you that hurt & frustration will be part of this process if you don’t complete the “self-work”  first.

3) Online Dating, indeed dating in general, is a step-by-step learning process. It is a means to learn about yourself; learn about your likes/dislikes; learn about others and learn about who you are in a relationship. When you do not know yourself and like yourself before entering this process, the crucial self-learning is lost as you focus on the wrong things (the hurt feelings, the loneliness, and the silly details of “he said, she said”)

Come to a good place about who you are then approach this Online Dating growth process.

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My Online Dating guide is an eBook now available through Amazon/Kindle at the link below:

http://www.amazon.com/Enjoy-Online-Dating-Using-Attraction-ebook/dp/B00HPGGH7C/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1389201434&sr=1-1&keywords=Enjoy+online+dating+using