Watching My Path Light up…

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So, it’s been EXACTLY 7mos.from the day that I began my cross-country trip (Philly to San Diego) in my Jeep Wrangler. Because I was open to adventure, a lovely, seven-day journey became one of the top events of my life. I am so grateful that I was open to whatever the Universe would bring me. (My adventure is described in previous daily posts)

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So seven months later, I have settled back on Maui. I live back in the same exact town where I departed from just blocks away from my previous apartment. Today, my boy & I live with a dear friend who lives just 4 blocks from my BFF. We live 1 block from the ocean and the surfing/paddling spot where I met my son’s father. Life is a BIG circle, lol!  When I left Maui for Philadelphia, I was a personal trainer, radio DJ, and primary school gym teacher. Today, I am a personal trainer& fitness instructor (the same awesome gym!), a morning show radio personality (on a different station), and a weekly emcee at a dinner lounge/night spot. I recall when I lived in Philly (and regretted leaving Maui everyday) that I thought, “Who in their right mind leaves a beautiful, exotic island home and 3 jobs that they love?  I’ll never be able to re-create that!! What an idiot I must be!!”…. Today, as I stared at the ocean, I realize that I got back everything I loved; my boy is happy; and everything is actually BETTER than when I left. How is that even possible??!!??…

NOTHING is a random occurrence! Recognize when the Universe is lighting up your path! How do you know? The events occur effortlessly & seamlessly. You feel good butterflies about opportunities opening up. Many times these fortunate events are unplanned and just fall into your lap. i.e., my friend lost her housemates just a month before I moved back to Maui; the gym owners wanted me back; I couldn’t get my job back at the original radio station – they had filled my vacancy. I never liked the music format there to begin with & longed for a morning show of my own on a super cool dance-music station. Weeks later, I’m driving my Jeep, listening to a jammin’ new station that I’d never heard before. I called the station to get the email address of the program mgr. Today, I’m the Morning Girl at the brand new station on the island. I am the only on-air personality at this station. The manager at the lounge/night-spot heard me on the air a few weeks ago and contacted the station to do some advertising. Today, I emcee their new, weekly ladies’ night event. Like I said, nothing is random. Even the seemingly negative event (my previous on-air job being filled) can be the bridge to your intended path. Your intended path is ALWAYS the path of least resistance. Your only work when these things happen is to control your mood! Follow what feels good. Stop second guessing & doubting the events. Appreciate the timing. Appreciate each step you take in your life journey. Remember, there are no wrong decisions because eventually you’ll wind up on the path intended for you but going with your gut & following your bliss will get you to the lighted path faster….

 

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Not a Vibrational Match…Right Now…

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Recently, I had to let someone go. First time in my life that a relationship ended due to circumstances rather than by choice. (although according to LoA – we all choose the circumstances we’re in)…

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In the pain of letting go, I placed the person in a category so that I could process the separation and move on to happiness quickly. Then my BFF reminded me, ” You MIGHT not be a vibrational match to what he offers in a relationship today but you MAY be a match to a relationship with him in the future. Be open to what unfolds”. In painful moments, I have a tendency to not be open to what can unfold.  When we can appreciate what manifested in the past and turn with open eyes & arms to the future, then we can receive what the Universe planned for us.

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When Life Changes…

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Admittedly, it’s been awhile…As I read my last post (months ago) I see where events were headed. I met a man who wanted to move to a tropical destination. I told him that me & my boy missed Maui terribly. As we spent time together & grew closer, I encouraged him to pursue his dream of leaving the frigid Northeast to set up life near the beach. One day he looked at me & said, “Why do you tell others to do what’s in their heart and yet you keep your boy & yourself in a place that makes you both miserable? Go home to Maui…” Yesterday this brilliant, sensitive, sexy man left on a plane bound for Florida. He had applied for a position near the beach and got the job. Now he can wake up and jump right in the pool at his new complex before going to work just a few blocks from the beach. He dreamed it and was brave enough to make it happen. Hats off!

Meanwhile, I pondered his sage advice & decided to go home where our hearts belong – to Maui. Today my son is surfing off the South shore of Maui & I am planning my last adventure here on the mainland: a cross-country trek in my beloved Jeep Wrangler. Gonna drive from Philly to Cali with a few scenic stops along the way and fly from Cali back to Hawaii. I gave it a good shot back here in Philly, where I was born & raised. It no longer feels like home.

So…  This + This = This

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A map showing the west coast of the United States, including Hawaii. Maui and San Jose, California, are highlighted.

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I’ll be doing a solo journey and I’m sure a LOT of self-reflection will happen. Wish me luck and watch the details of my journey here. I’ll post pics and my experiences everyday. Thanks to the caring, young man who helped me see that it was ME standing in the way of my own happiness, nothing else. Isn’t that so often the case? I will be forever grateful to him (who also landed in a tropical location that begins with “M” and ends in “I”). Serendipitous….To quote my own blog post…

“Sometimes the reason why someone appears in your life isn’t clear at first. Each person in your life was drawn because they matched your vibration. How they contribute to your journey sometimes takes some work to determine…Stay in appreciation of each person that spends time in your life because the interaction is unique and can provide learning or growth or support or friendship or love. The reason doesn’t have to be clear right now. The reason becomes clear later….”

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The Reason Why…

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Sometimes the reason why someone appears in your life isn’t clear at first. Of course we must remember that we draw them there through Law of Attraction.

Each person in your life was drawn because they matched your vibration. How they contribute to your journey sometimes takes some work to determine – if you are interested in learning. Maybe the person is an indicator of your mood? Maybe interaction with that person changes the direction of your life or spurs you forward in a direction you were already heading in?…

Stay in appreciation of each person that spends time in your life because the interaction is unique and can provide learning or growth or support or friendship or love. The reason doesn’t have to be clear right now. The reason becomes clear later….

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You Ask But Are You Ready?

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I rarely re-post from another blog-site but this article is phenomenal. The author may not be formally aware of the Law of Attraction but this view point is in complete alignment with LoA. Enjoy reading about your own readiness for a relationship in the Vortex…

http://markgroves.tv/why-you-might-not-be-ready-for-the-evolved-man-you-say-you-want/

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Stop Pointing at Others

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I have a New Years resolution to look at my own choices & behavior before pointing the finger at others. Pointing at the behavior of others does little to help you grow as a person, especially as a person in relationship. There are 2 important reasons to stop pointing at others to blame.

1) In the Law of Attraction – you draw all persons and circumstances who/that are a match to your emotions. ALWAYS

2)  You have little or NO influence on the journey of another person so why spend any time worrying, debating, discussing or analyzing their choices & behavior?

 

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When looking at a string of negative dating experiences, examine where you are emotionally. You have drawn these circumstances to yourself with maybe some doubt, some negative thinking, some depressed emotions… It may be time to take a break to get to a happier place. Or if your relationship has hit a rocky place, examine the vibration you’ve been putting out there in the past few weeks & months. Are you unhappy, tired, doubtful, cynical? Well, it’s no wonder that circumstances changed to match your own emotional vibe. Always examine self when questioning your circumstances.

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Reflections

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As the new year is upon us, looking back and looking forward is common. “Take time to reflect” is a slogan you here a lot these days.

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In my mind, taking a look back is only fruitful if you are looking back in appreciation. If looking back at this past year has you focusing on negative events of 2014, then cut it out. Find reasons to be appreciative of 2014 and then the Universe will send you more of THAT for 2015. Looking forward & looking back only serves you if you are in alignment (happiness & appreciation of ALL events). Peace comes to you when you realize that everything that happened in 2014 is EXACTLY as the Universe/Source had planned. Happy 2015!!

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