Ready for a Lesson in Growth?


I recently had a discussion with a close friend who had a “come to jes–” moment with me.


I described a recent dating experience in which a dating partner asked me to do something I had clearly defined as an activity that I don’t enjoy. I reiterated to him that I don’t like hiking outdoors & that he was welcome to go alone while I detailed my Jeep that day. My GF pointed out to me, “Chris, not every difference is a battle about changing you! You must recognize when a partner is just wanting to spend time with you doing something he enjoys and wants you to learn that side of him.”…Oh, I hadn’t considered that. Hmmm… the alpha female in me is always ready to do battle about “standing my ground” but dating & relationships is NOT about this. I see now that I had squandered a moment to learn something about him & grow closer instead of seeing only a difference that defined our separateness. Be wise and humble enough to learn from a dating partner. As Jason Mraz sings, “..You win some or learn some…”


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