Change and Re-Evaluation

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“The one constant in life is…Change” or “A tiger never changes its stripes”. I’m sure you’ve heard both of these phrases at one time or another.

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I have seen people change (including myself) as they experience life events and as wisdom is gathered. Do you have a sibling or good friend who changed drastically after they had children? Or maybe the same thing happened to someone you know after they experienced a divorce? Or maybe change just happened subtly as the decades passed?

What I find is that there are unique personality traits that MAY stay the same through life experiences but what ALWAYS changes are your priorities. When I was 18yo, my top priority was establishing who I was; establishing my identity. Years (and years) later, my top priority is being present for my son & staying fit. But friends & family will tell you that the adventurous, talkative, active & independent-minded girl hasn’t changed much.

Take a moment to reflect on what has changed about you and what has changed about your priorities. It will definitely affect what you look for in a dating partner and in dating experiences. Re-evaluate what and who suits you now as compared to last year or 3, or 5 years ago. You may find some surprises!

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  • Need guidance on how to date “LoA-Style”? Private e-mail consultations are available for personalized guidance in your dating journey AND
  • If you are revamping your health/fitness/nutrition routine and are looking for an alternative to costly personal training sessions, I also provide weekly email fitness programs (Video assistance is also available) and basic nutrition guidelines tailored just for you. A unique system of accountability can be built into your fitness consultation program. Certified through the American Council on Exercise, Silver Sneakers and Jonny G. Spinning and a full-time personal trainer/instructor since 2007

Just contact me at vortexdating@gmail.com for a description of very affordable service packages and my link to PayPal.

My new eBook “Enjoy Online Dating Using the Law of Attraction” is NOW available exclusively through Amazon Kindle for under $10. (You don’t have to own a Kindle. Simply download the Kindle app to your phone or Kindle program to your PC for FREE)

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Patience

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Wiser friends remind me during coffee chats that the Universe has its own perfect timing for things. A flower blossoms when its ready, not a minute before.

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I am a “results-oriented” individual who would never be described as patient, calm or laid-back, lol! I laugh at my own tendencies. I have to laugh or I’d go crazy. I am learning through experience that jumping too quickly to make events happen results in a poor quality product. Especially in romantic relationships.

I recently sat in a coffee shop (whose tables were WAY too close together). While drinking my morning coffee, I overheard a couple (who clearly had only been dating a short time) who were not communicating well. The female asked, “..so how do you feel about marriage? I mean do you eventually see us getting married?” The man rolled his eyes in annoyance and responded, “Really? You’re gonna ask me that on a Sunday morning before I drink my cup of coffee?’ He grabbed his coffee & they walked out to the car – not speaking to each other.

This was a VERY typical example of what happens when someone in a relationship tries to “make something happen” because they lack patience. When one forces something into place instead of allowing the Universe to gather the perfect components at the right timing, one gets a result that will eventually go wrong and fall apart. This was a woman who was dating “to get married”. When you date for this purpose instead of dating to learn about new people; learn about your likes & dislikes; learn about who you are in a relationship; and to just enjoy fun moments … well, you are NOT letting the Universe do its magic. This could’ve been a relaxing, fun, pleasant Sunday morning coffee where this couple could grow closer. Instead he’s trying to run as far away from her as possible. I can predict what will happen in her dating future. Have patience! The Universe will put it all together much better than anything you can imagine.

I have more insights but you’ll need to get my eBook, lol! Good luck in this journey & remember – you draw exactly what you FEEL. YOU are the one who controls what comes to you. Have fun!!!

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  • Need guidance on how to date “LoA-Style”? Private e-mail consultations are available for personalized guidance in your dating journey AND
  • If you are revamping your health/fitness/nutrition routine and are looking for an alternative to costly personal training sessions, I also provide weekly email fitness programs (Video assistance is also available) and basic nutrition guidelines tailored just for you. A unique system of accountability can be built into your fitness consultation program. Certified through the American Council on Exercise, Silver Sneakers and Jonny G. Spinning and a full-time personal trainer/instructor since 2007

Just contact me at vortexdating@gmail.com for a description of very affordable service packages and my link to PayPal.

My new eBook “Enjoy Online Dating Using the Law of Attraction” is NOW available exclusively through Amazon Kindle for under $10. (You don’t have to own a Kindle. Simply download the Kindle app to your phone or Kindle program to your PC for FREE)

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It is the PERFECT guide to those Law of Attraction followers who are delving into the Online/Internet Dating world.

Perfect Timing

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Have you heard the saying “It’s all about the Timing”? In the world of Law of Attraction this involves only one thing.

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How READY are you be the person you imagine and accept the gifts of manifestation? The only thing that affects the timing of circumstances is your vibrational match-up to what you dream of. Stop longing; stop being discouraged; stop obsessing. Becoming a vibrational match to what you want involves relaxing about the topic & already KNOWING that it IS on its way to you. The closer you are to this state of mind – the closer you are to the manifestation…

Allow the Universe to gather the best components for WHAT you want and welcome the relationship (the job, the apartment/house, the circumstances) that you deserve and is a match for your future… THAT’S how it happens!

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  • Need guidance on how to date “LoA-Style”? Private e-mail consultations are available for personalized guidance in your dating journey AND
  • If you are revamping your health/fitness/nutrition routine and are looking for an alternative to costly personal training sessions, I also provide weekly email fitness programs (Video assistance is also available) and basic nutrition guidelines tailored just for you. A unique system of accountability can be built into your fitness consultation program. Certified through the American Council on Exercise, Silver Sneakers and Jonny G. Spinning and a full-time personal trainer/instructor since 2007

Just contact me at vortexdating@gmail.com for a description of very affordable service packages and my link to PayPal.

My new eBook “Enjoy Online Dating Using the Law of Attraction” is NOW available exclusively through Amazon Kindle for under $10. (You don’t have to own a Kindle. Simply download the Kindle app to your phone or Kindle program to your PC for FREE)

EnjoyOnlineDatingCover

It is the PERFECT guide to those Law of Attraction followers who are delving into the Online/Internet Dating world.

A Time to Reflect

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Nothing beats strong emotion as an opportunity to learn about self. Whether it is great sadness, intense anger, confusion, frustration or overwhelming joy, experiencing intense emotion provides an excellent opportunity to examine yourself and learn what makes YOU tick.

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In these moments of emotion, it takes an unusual awareness of self to rise above the moment and observe your own reactions and state of mind that arise out of circumstances outside of your control. Our job in this journey is not to learn how to control conditions and circumstances but to make sense of our emotional reactions. These reactions are normal & acceptable but it helps one to stay sane if you can remember, “I can learn about myself from this” and “My emotions last month on this date are hard to remember, this will also pass & be hard to remember”. Use emotional intensity as a unique way to learn how to stay grounded in calm & sanity.

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  • Need guidance on how to date “LoA-Style”? Private e-mail consultations are available for personalized guidance in your dating journey AND
  • If you are revamping your health/fitness/nutrition routine and are looking for an alternative to costly personal training sessions, I also provide weekly email fitness programs (Video assistance is also available) and basic nutrition guidelines tailored just for you. A unique system of accountability can be built into your fitness consultation program. Certified through the American Council on Exercise, Silver Sneakers and Jonny G. Spinning and a full-time personal trainer/instructor since 2007

Just contact me at vortexdating@gmail.com for a description of very affordable service packages and my link to PayPal.

My new eBook “Enjoy Online Dating Using the Law of Attraction” is NOW available exclusively through Amazon Kindle for under $10. (You don’t have to own a Kindle. Simply download the Kindle app to your phone or Kindle program to your PC for FREE)

EnjoyOnlineDatingCover

It is the PERFECT guide to those Law of Attraction followers who are delving into the Online/Internet Dating world.