Don’t Know What to Do?

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Luckily, in the world of dating (and actually in a majority of situations) an immediate decision is usually not necessary. Good thing because how many of us have sat in confusion in a romantic crossroads?

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Probably all of us. It’s alright. In romance, in 99% of circumstances, you have time to make a decision and eventually choose a direction. If you have no feeling one way or another about a decision, wait. With time & passing events, your feelings about a situation will become clear. When there is no pressing urgency to act and no feeling one way or another, breathe a sigh of relief, the universe is letting you gather more information.

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Connection vs. Independence

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OK, true story. Yesterday I was riding public trans into work and on one side I saw a billboard with a word in large red letters “Connection”. In the opposite window, an advertisement with the word in blue “Independence”.

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Having just read my numerology analysis the night before, I was already pondering this concept. How does an “independent, strong leader” type accept & deal with the interdependence and connection necessary in relationship. Not just romantic relationship but in family relationships, at work, in the community where we live.  Just like the circular links pictured here – each person must be a complete, strong, full circle independent of others; acceptable all alone. YET you become stronger and develop purpose when you connect & link with others. It’s a balance. How do you know you have a good balance between independence and connection to others? When you do not fear either status.

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Anticipation

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Have you ever watched children between Thanksgiving and Christmas?… I was a primary school gym teacher for some years so I had the good fortune to watch groups of children through the holiday season.

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If you watch them, they KNOW it’s coming! There’s no doubt in their mind that something wonderful will come to them. We can learn a lesson by watching them. If something that you REALLY want has not manifested yet, act like a child between Thanksgiving and Christmas. Get excited. Imagine all the “gifts under the tree”. Imagine Christmas morning and all the wonderment that comes when children awaken that day.  You could spend time in frustration & disappointment but there is another option. Wouldn’t you rather spend your time feeling THIS way?.

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Follow the Path of Water

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Ever watch the ebb & flow of a tide pool? When the water recedes back to the body of ocean, the water disappears through the easiest path – the path of least resistance.

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It’s not necessarily the path that we can see. There may be a waterway that is underground that is not obvious to the eye. It is the same in life. The Universe KNOWS which path is easiest for you to reach your dreams. Don’t fight the flow. You never see a stream of water fight the easiest path do you? You may think there is path to your dreams BUT stay open. The Universe always has a grander plan than you can ever imagine. When events start flowing in a direction, go with it. The Universe is directing you towards the easiest path for your unique ebb & flow.

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Do You Keep Telling the Same Story?…

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Our lives create a story. You may have forgotten that YOU are indeed the author!

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Each time you tell others a story of your relationship history, dating history, the story of your marriage or about your children, you are creating a future full of the same stories. Do you like the story that you tell? Does it fill your heart with warmth? Or do you feel sad or angry as you tell your story? You control the plot, the setting, the events as they unfold and by just telling this same story over and over again, you invite more of the same. If you don’t like your life story, start changing how you tell things… For example: “I have REALLY learned from past experiences and am heading into a (relationship, parenting style, career, etc.) that I can’t wait to watch unfold”.

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Sometimes All That’s Left is to Laugh at Yourself…

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An issue or problem can consume you (whether you realize it or not). As you experience the discomfort of wanting something, you place a wish out in the Universe. Your work is now done. Stop worrying; stop obsessing; stop analyzing the details. All that’s left to do is laugh; even if it’s only to laugh at yourself for being totally & perfectly human!

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The solutions only come when you are able to let go of the problem.

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“Girl, I’ll Meet You for Coffee and Tell You All About It…”

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It starts off innocently enough… A friend calls and has some relationship gossip (either his/hers or someone else’s). Sounds like fun & you’ve been meaning to catch up with them.

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After a little while, the conversation turns negative. “Oh, woe is me! This always happens. Wo/Men are just like that – a mess! And you can NEVER find a good one…Or the one’s you find are undercover players or outright C-R-A-Z-Y!!”  If your conversation takes this turn, time to change the subject or “Oops, look at the time! I got an appointment about a thing with a guy. It was great but gotta’ go!” When you help to perpetuate negativity about the woes & complaints of dating & relationships, you are sending out a negative signal to the Universe. And the Universe will comply and send you everything you or your friend are complaining about! Anyone can have a negative day. On these days, I trust my own BFF (that’s why she’s my BFF!)  to look at me, smile & say, “Chris, is that REALLY what you want to say?” Turns me around and sets me on the positive path back towards the Vortex. If I can’t turn it around then I just shut up. Be a good friend (or have a good friend!) and stop the negative chatter! (I dedicate this post to my BFF, Anita, who listens to me over MANY cups of coffee!)

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