We’ve all been through it. You get in a funk about this whole “dating thing”. You start getting down on the process and getting down on self. Nothing seems to be working.
That’s when it’s time to take a break. Take a time out. Take time to recharge your batteries. When you proceed in anything when you are feeling down & defeated, it is a fruitless effort. My suggestion: Hide your profile/s. Go watch a movie with friends or go to a ball game with friends. Start a new home project. Pick up that hobby you were always curious about. Go to the bookstore. Go to the beach. Focus on enjoying yourself! Little by little, as the days go by (if you are focusing on other, fun things), you will get back to your upbeat self. Make “Alone Time” to align with happiness; align with yourself.