When you are eating ice cream, do you think to yourself, “How can I make this ice cream cone last 20 years?” or “Will this ice cream cone be there for me when I really need it?” NO, probably not. Most of us enjoy an ice cream cone knowing that it is here only for the moment. We savor every mouthful and enjoy the flavor to its fullest without a thought to its future. Dating & relationships would be the source of a lot more joy and a lot less heartache or confusion if we held this same view for potential partners. Enjoy the moments right now. Stop obsessing about the future. Savor the fun & excitement of today. Don’t let worry about the future spoil a delicious part of your life experience.